4 Common Swingers Myths Debunked

There are many misconceptions from people who have never been involved in the swingers lifestyle. The mystery and intrigue of swinging has their mind’s untruths about what it is and the people who participate. We’re here to debunk and set the record straight of these four common swingers myths surrounding the lifestyle and get the truth out there once and for all.

Myth #1: Swinging Is Cheating

Swinger couples practice open and honest communication and have made a mutual agreement between them concerning the boundaries of their activities with other partners. Cheating is when a lie is necessary to share intimacy with another person, but swingers are typically aware of the sexual partners of their significant other and sometimes would join in on the fun.

So, how could it be cheating if your partner knows and participates? These arrangements avoid the need for anyone to go down the hurtful road of cheating. With trust and honesty, swingers have the ability to delve into extramarital affairs.

Myth #2: Only Dissatisfied Couples Swing

Swingers know that partner sharing and swapping won’t save a troubled relationship. In fact, only a couple who is committed to each other and has a great level of trust enter the lifestyle. Those who swing are more open about their wants and needs sexually and can put those desires in motion, so they tend to have much stronger relationships than most vanilla couples.

Myth #3: Swingers Will Hook Up With Anyone

This is one huge myth, because in reality, those in the swingers lifestyle tend to be highly selective about hook up partners—perhaps more so than the average single. These couples often choose playmates to hook up with based on chemistry, personal tastes and attraction.

Swinger Couples have certain desires and ‘flavors’ that can change or expand over time so don’t assume that just because they are in the lifestyle they will play with any and everyone. They tend to vet their play partners diligently and will look for certificates from other couples as a source of reference before engaging in play.

Myth #4: People Who Swing Are ‘Easy’

Swingers myths include a humdinger: that swingers (especially the ladies) are slutty or easy for their sexual proclivities. However, those who play with others are not repressing their desires or fantasies, but rather, they are embracing their power and going after what they want.

If you’re reading this, it’s likely that you, your partner or both of you are interested in swinging. Check out our other blog posts to learn more about the lifestyle from real life swingers who are ‘in the know’.

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