Spanking is a large part of BDSM and swinging fun, but it has worked its way into lives of those who typically live a somewhat ‘vanilla’ lifestyle. While it’s not possible for everyone to have a dedicated room for playtime, here are five tools of the trade that are ideal even for bedroom spanking sessions.
Key Furnishings
While the bed is wholly acceptable—especially when adapted with bondage accessories—those who take playtime extra serious may want to have a dedicated paddling table or bench. If part of a room or one in its entirety is available, you might consider clever spanking zones such as wall or floor rings, hoists, swings or even a cage for role playing.
Spanking Toys
Of course, the good old fashioned hand paddling is always optional, however some spunkier partners may want to mix things up. Each of these tools offers a different sensation, come in a variety of size options, and they can be utilized to meet various levels of pain desired. Popular spankers include:
- Whips
- Canes
- Riding Crops
- Floggers
- Leather Paddles
Honestly, even household objects like rolled up newspaper, belts, hairbrushes, fly swatters and spatulas can become impromptu spanking devices. Just use your imagination and be open to the experience. You may never look at a fly swatter the same way ever again!
Ropes and Restraints
Bondage ropes in various lengths can be useful in keeping your willing prey tied down to receive their ‘punishment.’ There are also various types of wrist and ankle cuffs in leather and velcro options—some that can be hidden beneath the bed for discretion between spanking sessions. One can get creative and make their own restraints from leather belts and use the ropes to hogtie recipients. Another popular restraint for spanking lovers are spreader bars that help maintain ideal positioning.
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